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Cynthia wonders, “Why is it so hard to find the right guy?” It’s not what you might think. Listen to this episode to hear me coach her. — In this episode, I coach Cynthia, a 52-year-old divorced woman who wonders if she’ll ever find the right guy. She has been in several relationships since her divorce, staying too long with men who are missing some of her must-haves, and she is concerned that she’ll never find the right partner. If you’ve ever stayed too long with the wrong partners or worried that you won’t find the right partner for you, listen to this episode! Cynthia applied to be coached live on Last First Date Radio. Here’s what she wrote: “My name is Cynthia and I am 52 years old. I’ve been divorced for six years after a marriage of 20 years. I’ve had several relationships since my divorce, three that were over a year. I’m getting better at realizing my mistakes – settling for a man who was missing items on my needs list, such as having equal or grea...

Should a woman text after a good first date if she doesn’t hear from the man the next day? I share my thoughts in this video. — A woman in my Facebook Group, Your Last First Date , posted about whether she should text after a good first date. Since this topic is so controversial, I decided to cover it in this video. Should a Woman Text After a Good First Date? Here’s what she wrote: I had coffee yesterday with a new man and we had so much in common! He ticks so many of my boxes. We talked and talked for two hours and he said we must do this again sometime, to which I responded I’d like that.  But now he hasn’t messaged me! Should I text saying I enjoyed our meeting yesterday and I would like to see him again?  Here’s what I said: If he ticks so many boxes and you’re feeling a connection and would like to see him again, wait a few days to see if he texts you. You already expressed your interest in seeing him again while on the date, so if you ...

You don’t have a boyfriend because… You let jerks walk all over you because… You overeat chocolate because… You are a couch potato because… You are over your credit limit because… …you have low self-esteem. Often the underlying reason cited by others blames self esteem for almost every problem under the sun.  You may have even said to yourself on numerous occasions, “I just don’t feel good about myself.” You question whether your self-esteem is “high enough” as if there is some magical number where if you meet or exceed it, your well-being/health/existence is validated. Think of all the self-tests you’ve discovered in magazines where you can evaluate where you fall on the self-esteem continuum. The term, self-esteem, stems from the word ‘esteem’…which connotes a social regard and valuing. Most people falsely believe that adding the “self” in front of esteem takes it out of the social domain and roots it into “one’s foundation for self-regard”…making it an individual asset. If...

I’d be interested if you have a comparable list on how to identify the red flags for bad girls who are likely to behave like the woman here. That’s a fair question, and as I’ve been thinking it over I’ve found that applying the same standards women use doesn’t really work. Women are attracted to men for a whole host of reasons, and struggle with the question of how to read a guy’s intentions. We don’t want to have sex too soon and lose his respect, but we don’t want to hold out so long that he seeks satisfaction elsewhere. For women, it’s critical to observe a man’s character over a period of time to assess his willingness to enter into a committed relationship . Character is very important in women too, but men are primarily drawn to women via physical attraction. Their interest in a woman is immediate upon seeing her, and she may wield considerable power over him based on her sexual attractiveness. Women are generally willing to enter relationships, but men worry about finding out ...

Should a woman text after a good first date if she doesn’t hear from the man the next day? I share my thoughts in this video. — A woman in my Facebook Group, Your Last First Date , posted about whether she should text after a good first date. Since this topic is so controversial, I decided to cover it in this video. Should a Woman Text After a Good First Date? Here’s what she wrote: I had coffee yesterday with a new man and we had so much in common! He ticks so many of my boxes. We talked and talked for two hours and he said we must do this again sometime, to which I responded I’d like that.  But now he hasn’t messaged me! Should I text saying I enjoyed our meeting yesterday and I would like to see him again?  Here’s what I said: If he ticks so many boxes and you’re feeling a connection and would like to see him again, wait a few days to see if he texts you. You already expressed your interest in seeing him again while on the date, so if you ...

I’d be interested if you have a comparable list on how to identify the red flags for bad girls who are likely to behave like the woman here. That’s a fair question, and as I’ve been thinking it over I’ve found that applying the same standards women use doesn’t really work. Women are attracted to men for a whole host of reasons, and struggle with the question of how to read a guy’s intentions. We don’t want to have sex too soon and lose his respect, but we don’t want to hold out so long that he seeks satisfaction elsewhere. For women, it’s critical to observe a man’s character over a period of time to assess his willingness to enter into a committed relationship . Character is very important in women too, but men are primarily drawn to women via physical attraction. Their interest in a woman is immediate upon seeing her, and she may wield considerable power over him based on her sexual attractiveness. Women are generally willing to enter relationships, but men worry about finding out ...

I’d be interested if you have a comparable list on how to identify the red flags for bad girls who are likely to behave like the woman here. That’s a fair question, and as I’ve been thinking it over I’ve found that applying the same standards women use doesn’t really work. Women are attracted to men for a whole host of reasons, and struggle with the question of how to read a guy’s intentions. We don’t want to have sex too soon and lose his respect, but we don’t want to hold out so long that he seeks satisfaction elsewhere. For women, it’s critical to observe a man’s character over a period of time to assess his willingness to enter into a committed relationship . Character is very important in women too, but men are primarily drawn to women via physical attraction. Their interest in a woman is immediate upon seeing her, and she may wield considerable power over him based on her sexual attractiveness. Women are generally willing to enter relationships, but men worry about finding out ...