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Kimberly Blackburn’s new book tells the story of breaking the cycle of abuse in her marriage. Tune in to learn how she healed. — Author Kimberly Blackburn shares her story of breaking the cycle of abuse in her new book, Dirty Love. She is working to build a community for women to better their relationships and feel supported while talking about serious issues that are still very prominent in our society. She hopes her work will inspire other women to live a more authentic life. EP 534: Kimberly Blackburn – Breaking the Cycle of Abuse Last First Date Radio Join Sandy Weiner, THE renowned dating and relationship coach for women over 40, for this inspirational show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife. Listen to interviews with top experts and cutting edge authors, plus live coaching! Don’t you want to go on your LAST FIRST DATE? lastfirstdate.com EP 534: Kimberly Blackburn – Breaking the Cycle of Abuse by Sandy Weiner Author Kimberl...

Did you know that polarity in relationships is what creates passion and attraction? Listen to this episode to learn more. — Gillian Harper is an author, speaker, coach, and entrepreneur. She knows firsthand that the boundaries that divide our careers and our home life are blurred. Finally, she discovered what she was looking for: the little-known Law of Polarity that brought her life back from the brink. Gillian has made it her mission to share her insights and continue her work helping others. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: What is the law of Polarity? Why is Polarity important in a relationship? How to go deeper into your Dragon and Tiger energy How you can use Polarity to bring more passion into your relationships EP 533: Gillian Harper – The Importance of Polarity in Relationships Last First Date Radio Join Sandy Weiner, THE renowned dating and relationship coach for women over 40, for this inspirational show about attracting ...

Post-dating friendship – can it work? Discover when it’s okay to become friends and when it’s better to move on. — Does post-dating friendship work when there’s no romantic interest? What about after a relationship ends? Sometimes friendships can be successful after dating, but most of the time, it doesn’t work. In this video, I share when to suggest post-dating friendship and when to walk away. A Guide to Post-Dating Friendship Why Suggest Post-Dating Friendship? Why do so many people ask to be friends when they don’t feel a romantic connection? I believe there are two key reasons: 1. They’re afraid to hurt the other person, and they want to let them down kindly. 2. They actually feel a connection and would like to pursue a friendship. If you’re the type of person who asks everyone you date to be friends even if you don’t feel a connection, I invite you to pause before having the ‘auto friend’ conversation. Ask yourself a few quest...

If you want to have more fun in dating, listen to this podcast episode with Dr. Elaine Goldhammer. Get ready to enjoy dating so much more! — Want to have more fun in dating? Elaine Goldhammer, MD, is a physician turned hypnotherapist and life coach who works with clients’ subconscious and conscious brains. Her practice helps clients get past their inner struggles to live lives with less anxiety, fear, and reactivity. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: How to make dating more fun The biggest lessons learned when dating after divorce How to prepare your brain for more fun in dating How hypnotherapy helps heal trauma and makes dating better EP 532: Elaine Goldhammer – How to Prepare Your Brain for More Fun in Dating Last First Date Radio Join Sandy Weiner, THE renowned dating and relationship coach for women over 40, for this inspirational show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife. Listen to interviews wit...

Ladies, if a man asks you to plan the date, what do you do? In this video, I share my thoughts on this controversial topic. — What do you do when a man asks you to plan the date? A woman wrote a post about this topic in my Facebook group, Your Last First Date, this week, and it generated a lot of differing opinions, so I thought I’d share my thoughts. Here’s what she wrote: “I met a guy on Sunday. He seems put together, stable and intelligent. It was a very nice connection. At the end of the date, he asked me whether I wanted to go out again on Saturday. I agreed, and a few days later, he asked whether I had any ideas for Saturday’s date. He’s been busy and didn’t have time to think about it nor research. I agreed to do it. However, a part of me feels that I’m entering the pattern of doing all the work. I feel that if he really liked me he would text me and make the plans. I am the anxious type and don’t want to self sabotage with negative thoughts. Am I overthinking du...

Before you can have a healthy relationship with others, you must heal your relationship with yourself. Dawn Kohler shows you how. — Dawn Kohler was an entrepreneur in the computer industry when she was abruptly summoned to take a life-altering course. What followed was an extraordinary journey that gave her profound insights and a deep understanding of the human dynamic. Combining these insights and her business experience, Dawn wrote a memoir, The Messages. She’s a sought-after Executive Coach. Her clients have included many of the most influential women in entertainment, as well as senior leaders at such companies as Sony Pictures, NBCUniversal, Lionsgate, DreamWorks, Fox, Snapchat, Disney, and Amazon. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: How to access our relationship with ourselves How our relationship with ourselves influences our relationship with others How to stop blaming our parents for how we turned out How our relationship with ourselves...

A lot of people during the holidays experience feelings of loneliness and isolation. Parties that are a time to socialize and meet other new people can be difficult when you don’t feel like you have anything in common with anyone there. Here are some ideas for meeting other people at holiday events, whether it’s your annual office party or your mom’s big holiday dinner, so you’ll have a good time without feeling stressed out! 1. Look approachable A lot of people come to the party wanting to stay by themself. They sort of disappear into the background, and no one knows who they are. So greet people you recognize and try to talk to them. If you don’t know anyone, just smile, look approachable and hang out near a group of people who seem to be having a good time—it’ll be contagious! Have a glass of passion fruit wine , some eggnog, or maybe a plate of hors d’oeuvres in your hand so you can look like you fit in there too. 2. Ask open-ended questions Lots of people are worried about so...

The dating world can be tricky to navigate. Online dating is especially difficult to navigate because there are so many different types of dating that you can pursue online and each takes its own approach. However, there are some general rules for new relationship timeline to keep in mind that will definitely get you on the right track to getting the attention that you want and need. Keep reading to get an idea of how you can find the women that you want for the intentions that you have in mind, no matter what those might be. What Are You Looking For? The biggest thing about online dating is that you have the chance to specifically look for the type of dating or encounters that you have in mind. Thus, there’s no point in putting your efforts where they aren’t really invested. If you just want to hook up with women, make sure that you’re clear about that and that you use the appropriate dating and hookup apps to do so. If you aren’t clear about what you want, how can you expect to fi...

If you tend to give more love than you get, this video is for you. Learn how to create more balanced relationships. — There’s always give and take in a relationship. But if you give more love than you get, the relationship begins to become unbalanced. And that leads to big issues that are hard to repair. In this video, I share signs of over-giving, the consequences of giving more than you get, and how to restore balance if you give more than you get in relationships. Do you give more love than you get? Signs of over-giving You’d do anything for them, but they wouldn’t do the same for you You do most of the talking You know their favorite things, but they don’t know yours You say things like, “It’s okay” or “That’s just the way they are” when they don’t come through for you The consequences of giving more love than you get You’re drained You become resentful over time You give permission to your partner to ...

Jackie Chiodo says we attract what we believe we’re worth. When she increased her self-worth, she met her beloved. Listen to her story! — Jackie Chiodo is a leader in the field of mind-body wellness. Over the past 25 years, she has led thousands of clients through radical transformation. Through Hypnosis, she helps you discover your worth and align your relationships accordingly. Jackie guides others through the same process she has used in her own life, to attract a healthy, loving relationship. Jackie believes we attract what we believe we’re worth! In this episode of Last First Date Radio: What patterns she identified that were repeatedly leading her into the same type of relationship Her relationship triggers Examples of love and marriage she was given as a child How she broke the cycle We Attract What We Believe We’re Worth Last First Date Radio Join Sandy Weiner, THE renowned dating and relationship coach for women over 40, for...