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What are the dating trends in 2022? Hear from Michael Kaye, head of PR at OKCupid, who has first-hand knowledge of what’s new in dating. If you want to know the latest dating trends, listen to Michael Kaye, the head of public relations at OkCupid. He has become a leading voice on dating and relationships. He also teaches at New York University, and volunteers with the Human Rights Campaign. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: How OkCupid is different from other dating apps Dating changes since the pandemic The latest dating trends on OkCupid What is cuffing season and when does it begin? Some tips for creating a great dating app profile EP 525: Latest Dating Trends From the Head of PR at OKCupid Last First Date Radio Join Sandy Weiner, THE renowned dating and relationship coach for women over 40, for this inspirational show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife. Listen to interviews with top experts and cutting edge authors, p...

Have you ever dated someone who gave you mixed messages? They blew hot and cold? Watch this video to learn what to do! — My client, ‘Ann’, came to me after dating a man for nine months who gave her mixed messages. She was going through a devastating breakup, and she was depressed, unable to eat much, and crying every day. Here’s their story, a cautionary tale of what to do when someone gives you mixed messages. He was giving her mixed messages from the start… This guy had become her best friend. She was falling for him, but he told her from the beginning that he couldn’t commit to being in a relationship. He was too hurt in the past, and she said she was, too, so she thought this arrangement would work just fine for her. They began sleeping together without discussing commitment again. She didn’t want to nag him, and she was happy…but she’d have moments of confusion. He acted like he loved her, but he didn’t want to commit to her. After nine months in this “situ...

Learn the woman’s astrological guide to men with Vedic astrologer and relationship coach, Carol Allen. Check out this episode! — Carol Allen is a happily married Vedic astrologer and relationship coach whose mission is to empower women to enjoy truly “out of this world” love lives, combining her training in the astrology of India with cutting-edge, real-world relationship research. Carol’s been on E!, Bridezillas, EXTRA, Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers, and in Chicken Soup For The Soul, and is the author of Love Is In The Stars – The Wise Woman’s Astrological Guide To Men . She is regularly heard by hundreds of thousands of people on relationship summits, podcasts, radio shows, and her popular Love Is In The Stars newsletter. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: The difference between Vedic astrology and Western astrology How Vedic astrology is extra powerful when it comes to relationships The 5 Critical Keys to Love EP 324: Carol Allen – The Wise Woman...

These 5 mistakes are detrimental to your love life. Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, stop doing these 5 things! — We often make mistakes without even realizing it, especially when it comes to our love life. For example, we think we know what our partner or date is thinking or feeling, but chances are, we get it wrong. In this video, I share the five most common mistakes in dating and relationships and what we can do to end the cycle of assumptions! 5 Mistakes That Are Detrimental to Your Love Life Five common mistakes in dating and relationships 1. Being vague or dropping hints 2. Believing if someone cares about you, they’ll know what you’re thinking/feeling 3. Thinking if you’ve been with someone for a long time, they’re know your needs 4. Assigning meaning to their actions 5. Interpreting body language The only way to know what your significant other or date is thinking, feeling or needing is…to just ask them. Soun...

This is a story about finding love in unexpected places. My client, Julie, met the love of her life in the most unusual way. Listen in! — In this podcast episode, you’ll hear the true story about someone finding love in unexpected places. Julie first hired me nine years ago to help her find love after her divorce. She called last week to tell me she had something very exciting to share with me. She met an amazing man, and they’ve forged a love that’s so incredible, she could never have imagined it was possible. Her story is so inspiring, I had to share it with you! EP 523: Julie – Finding Love in Unexpected Places Last First Date Radio Join Sandy Weiner, THE renowned dating and relationship coach for women over 40, for this inspirational show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife. Listen to interviews with top experts and cutting edge authors, plus live coaching! Don’t you want to go on your LAST FIRST DATE? lastfirstdate.com EP 52...

Like to play the dating game? Learn these 3 casino rules of dating and you’ll be playing like a pro. Roulette came from a word meaning little wheel. Dating is a lot like that favorite casino game , except the stakes are much higher. Your feelings and his, are up for grabs. You’ve gotta learn the rules of dating with a bit of glam. When you go out with a new guy and you see the potential of something meaningful developing, the anticipation is so exciting. He is spinning this way, you are spinning that way, and you don’t even care. That is because the stakes aren’t too high, just yet. You are both still playing the game and it is fun, because you both have a chance of winning. When you threw your little white marble in the opposite direction of his spinning wheel, everything is just dandy. You think his solid wheel can handle something so small, feminine and intense. His head is spinning  fast, and so is yours. It feels really exhilarating. In the beginning, the momentum seems monumen...

What’s the psychology of cheating? Learn why people cheat, whether relationships with infidelity can be repaired, and how to rebuild trust. — Dr. Kathrine Bejanyan has a PhD in research psychology, focusing on cross-cultural relationships. She’s an American who relocated to London eleven years ago, and she runs a successful private practice in London, focusing on relationships. She has previously worked in a high-end matchmaking agency as a resident relationship therapist. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: The psychology of cheating Can relationships repair after cheating? How to know if you should stay or go How to trust again after infidelity Last First Date Radio Join Sandy Weiner, THE renowned dating and relationship coach for women over 40, for this inspirational show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife. Listen to interviews with top experts and cutting edge authors, plus live coaching! Don’t you want to go on your LA...

People often confuse setting boundaries with giving an ultimatum. In this video, you’ll learn the key differences between the two. — Do you know the difference between setting a boundary and giving an ultimatum? In this video, I define and share examples of both, so you can easily know when you’re using language that pushes people away instead of bringing them closer. Are You Setting a Boundary or Giving an Ultimatum? What’s a boundary? A boundary is a limit you set for yourself. These limits determine what you will and won’t do or accept or tolerate. Effective boundaries are about your choices not someone else’s. This is why setting healthy boundaries is so important, especially in romantic relationships. It’s empowering when you can identify your needs and set clear boundaries to protect them. You can’t control whether somebody will respect your boundaries, but you can control how you respond to them if they push back. What’s an ultim...

Choosing the right jewelry to wear on a first date can be nerve-wracking and emotional, primarily owing to our natural desire to make a good impression on first-time meetings. It is, therefore, vital to pick on something that portrays the kind of person you are, your personality, and your style. It should also reflect on the kind of date that you are wearing it to; whether it’s a romantic or casual date. Overall comfort and confidence are the key elements to keep in mind when you are selecting your accessories. That said, here are some key areas that will guide you to ensure that you nail the perfect jewelry for a first date. Personality  Jewelry that has been worn before is a better option as they are likely to inspire confidence as there will be fewer doubts about how it looks from previous complements. A choice to put on brightly colored jewelry as opposed to dull ones will give the impression of an outgoing and extroverted personality. This will also be an opportune time to pu...

People are using dating apps more often all over the world. They can help you meet your soulmate without searching far and wide – in fact, without even leaving your home. At the same time, dating sites are rife with fake profiles.  Usually, fake profiles have very few personal details and just one or no pictures at all. On the other hand, not every sparsely populated profile is necessarily fake. Some users are afraid of their information being misused and share as little as possible. While they’re only trying to protect themselves, it only makes them seem suspicious. Online Dating is Shrouded in Uncertainty Online dating is surrounded by uncertainty. Here are a few steps to take before meeting someone from a dating site in person.  Don’t Ignore Inconsistencies Don’t hesitate to cross-check any information that seems suspicious. Watch for an excessive number of clichés, corny lines, and inconsistent information. AI is developing very quickly, and some bots make it seem like you’re ...

People are using dating apps more often all over the world. They can help you meet your soulmate without searching far and wide – in fact, without even leaving your home. At the same time, dating sites are rife with fake profiles.  Usually, fake profiles have very few personal details and just one or no pictures at all. On the other hand, not every sparsely populated profile is necessarily fake. Some users are afraid of their information being misused and share as little as possible. While they’re only trying to protect themselves, it only makes them seem suspicious. Online Dating is Shrouded in Uncertainty Online dating is surrounded by uncertainty. Here are a few steps to take before meeting someone from a dating site in person.  Don’t Ignore Inconsistencies Don’t hesitate to cross-check any information that seems suspicious. Watch for an excessive number of clichés, corny lines, and inconsistent information. AI is developing very quickly, and some bots make it seem like you’re ...

People are using dating apps more often all over the world. They can help you meet your soulmate without searching far and wide – in fact, without even leaving your home. At the same time, dating sites are rife with fake profiles.  Usually, fake profiles have very few personal details and just one or no pictures at all. On the other hand, not every sparsely populated profile is necessarily fake. Some users are afraid of their information being misused and share as little as possible. While they’re only trying to protect themselves, it only makes them seem suspicious. Online Dating is Shrouded in Uncertainty Online dating is surrounded by uncertainty. Here are a few steps to take before meeting someone from a dating site in person.  Don’t Ignore Inconsistencies Don’t hesitate to cross-check any information that seems suspicious. Watch for an excessive number of clichés, corny lines, and inconsistent information. AI is developing very quickly, and some bots make it seem like you’re ...

People are using dating apps more often all over the world. They can help you meet your soulmate without searching far and wide – in fact, without even leaving your home. At the same time, dating sites are rife with fake profiles.  Usually, fake profiles have very few personal details and just one or no pictures at all. On the other hand, not every sparsely populated profile is necessarily fake. Some users are afraid of their information being misused and share as little as possible. While they’re only trying to protect themselves, it only makes them seem suspicious. Online Dating is Shrouded in Uncertainty Online dating is surrounded by uncertainty. Here are a few steps to take before meeting someone from a dating site in person.  Don’t Ignore Inconsistencies Don’t hesitate to cross-check any information that seems suspicious. Watch for an excessive number of clichés, corny lines, and inconsistent information. AI is developing very quickly, and some bots make it seem like you’re ...